Qiaojing: It's you. You gave this impression that you are independent and need no taking care of. Needy girls have this "I need someone to take care of me! Someone please take care of me!" look. (Qiaojing accompanied the last line with hands waving frantically in the air to best demonstrate her point.)
Me: It's not that I need someone to take care of me. It's that I want someone to take care of me. That's the diff.
All of you ARE wrong. Yes, all of you. Yes, so wrong.